Get Out Of A Bad Relationship
Some of the best Online Dating advice I received years ago was actually how to remove myself from an unhealthy relationship.
Some healthy relationships are worth fighting for and some you just need to suck up and get out of there, fast!
- Just End It. Yep, you gotta take a stand and break it off. It'll be of little use in inventing an excuse as well. She's going to yell the house down anyway so be prepared.
- Tell People Too. The scorned woman is likely to seek revenge in many ways. Relationship Forum sites suggest it's prudent for you to ensure your version of the story gets out in the wild and quick! If you've got mutual friends, you might want to let them know some of the details and make a few plans as to how the future is likely to be with those friends.
- Stay Clear Afterwards. If you've ended the relationship, it is also likely she'll want to get back together again. She'll be a little confused, she'll have gone through a number of thoughts that include her thinking it's all her fault and she'll want the opportunity in being able to fix her mistakes. If you're really sure about the break-up then you need to make sure you also avoid her phone calls and don't see her, well, at least not for a while anyway.
- After Sex. Oh dear, this is a popular technique for the desperate woman. If there's ever a more potent weapon in a woman's arsenal, it's the sexual charm and manipulation that she's able to wield; and wield instantly. And she knows it too. After the break-up, many guys have fallen prey to the casual sex situation with an ex-girlfriend, only to end up right back in a relationship with this woman. And the spiral begins again.
So end it, tell people, keep your distance and avoid her sexual charms!
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